As a writer, actor, director, producer, and now blogger, i face rejection all the time, on the things that i value the most in my life – my babies (creations), and it hurts like a mother fucker when something you invested so much time into, and loved so much, gets the pass over, or the entertainment industry of the flake – the no response to you’re pitch or submission. If you are seeing a correlation to getting women, you are correct. They are much in the same thing, you put something you love out there (you), and you face all these types of rejections, from being told you suck, to just never getting a call or txt back. Even after you bang them sometimes.

Artists, as annoyingly sensitive as they are, are much better at dealing with rejection, as they face it all the time. It’s most likely why their psyche are so erratic. They build up a thick skin when dealing with other people’s opinions of themselves and their works. If you don’t you will never make it, and you will never be able to create again. You learn to not take the rejection personal, because it doesn’t have anything to do with the quality of your work, or the ability of it to sell. You are solely relying on that other persons opinion or feelings about it. They may be an idiot, jealous, too busy, short sighted, who knows, it doesn’t matter. The point is, as hard as rejection can be, you must become indifferent to it. You must learn to never let it get to you. Sitting around moping about it won’t get you anywhere, or any chick, unless you’re 22 good looking, and brooding with a note book writing your poetry in a cafe – in that case you might be able to pull a hot girl.

Get your scar tissue built up. Face rejection like you face any challenge, as something to overcome. And the more attempts you make, the more likely you will get a green light. So submit everywhere and approach everything. It’s all a numbers game folks.